In Psalm 116 yesterday at Morning Prayer, we read, in verses 14 and 18: I will fulfill my vows to the Lord in the presence of all his people.  That gentle reminder sent me off to   The State of the Religious Life, by Br. Tobias S. Haller, BSG for further reading on the vows.  I was thinking specifically about the Vow of Chastity, as lived by BSG in our Rule of Life.  Tobias writes, "The Brotherhood does not equate chastity with celibacy (or celibacy with chastity, for that matter). The Brotherhood Rule describes chastity in the following way: A brother makes the vow of chastity as follows: Chastity is the decision to live with all in love, with respect for each person’s integrity. It is not a denial of one’s sexuality and capacity for love, but a dedication of the whole self to God: free from indecency or offensiveness and restrained from all excess, in order to be free to love others
without trying to possess or control. The living out of this vow — its content — is about the right use of one’s sexuality, combined with respect for the dignity of one’s spouse or partner.Some members of the community are married, with children; others live in covenanted life-long relationships."  Later in that description, he writes, Chastity is a matter of personal integrity — custody of the whole person. In this light, chastity governs all emotional aspects of the personality. Anger, impatience, envy, despondency, despair, hatred, as well as lust and vanity — these are the enemies of chastity. As Friar Giles said, “My brother, I tell thee that the diligent custody and continual watching of our
bodily and spiritual senses, keeping  them pure and spotless before God — that is truly called chastity.” (Fioretti 286)


That last part is what I was looking for. Another brother and I were standing on a Chicago sidewalk just last week when a bottle was thrown at us.  The anger aspect of a non chaste life reared its ugly head. I posted about the incident on Facebook, and used an adjective that a Religious should not use in describing the offender (s).  The Bishop of Chicago's wife took me to task, and I'm glad she did. I removed the post.  If we are to fulfill our vows as noted in Psalm 116, we need to think before we act hastily, and in an uncharitable, unchaste manner, regardless of what has happened to us.